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Alexandra Jacobs,
New York Times
[A] grand slam.
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Margaret Sundell,
4Columns
... moving.
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VICTORIA OLSEN,
The Chicago Review of Books
As Calhoun tracks down the people Schjeldahl interviewed fifty years earlier, the names, dates, and places run together. She immerses us in a parallel timeline of her interviews in 2020 interspersed with her father’s from the 1970s, excerpted in italics. It’s fascinating to hear all these voices directly but sometimes confusing to move back and forth between people and time periods, out of chronology. Who are these people, and what year are we in? Calhoun is an engaging guide and I was willing to wait and see where she led, but it was sometimes hard to follow.
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Scott Bradfield,
The New Repubilc
Part biography, part memoir, it reflects the half-spoken belief that writing about the things and people we love is often a lot easier than living with them.
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Hamilton Cain,
The Boston Globe
... breezy, whip-smart.
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Joan Frank,
The Washington Post
... if, like me and countless others, you’ve loved Schjeldahl’s art criticism — its acuity, its passion — and considered him (quoting a fan) 'the best art writer of our era … one of the best critics ever' — brace yourself. Also a Poet: Frank O’Hara, My Father, and Me, Calhoun’s brave, blistering new memoir, may force you to — uh — revise your assumptions.
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Chris Hewitt,
The Star Tribune
... dazzling.
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Matthew Holman,
The Times Literary Supplement (UK)
An offbeat memoir in many ways, and not always sure what it’s trying to convey, it meanders through the challenges of writing a biography without the confidence of its subject’s estate. But it’s also a familiar enough design: a literary biography (here, wrapped up in a second biography) mashed up with confessional vignettes from the author’s own life, as successfully popularized over the past decade by writers such as Olivia Laing and Maggie Nelson.
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Neil Serven,
Ploughshares
... a portrait of Schjeldahl that feels much clearer and intimate than any we might have gotten of O’Hara by way of overheard interviews. It’s a portrait informed by love and candor, threading together disparate chapters of a complicated man’s life into a thoughtful, cohesive whole..
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David Keymer,
Library Journal
Deeply moving and exceptionally well written, this offbeat memoir will please anyone interested in the NYC art scene from the 1950s on. Every father should have a daughter as loving, perceptive and honest as Calhoun..
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Nell Beram,
Shelf Awareness
Vexed but deceptively tender and cleverly conceived.
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Donna Seaman,
Booklist
Fluidly morphing, magnetically candid.
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Robert Weibezahl,
BookPage
Fearless.
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Emily Choate,
Chapter 16
Calhoun engages complex, fascinating dynamics of familial angst and artistic ambition.
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Alec Pollak,
The Los Angeles Review of Books
If this were an O’Hara biography, it would, I believe, be necessary to recreate the heady, masculinist ambience of an arts scene predicated upon the enjoyment of women as sex objects and muses...If this were a biography of O’Hara, I would do it — I might even want to do it — but I’m glad not to have to.
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Kirkus
A fascinating memoir.
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Publishers Weekly
A sweeping investigation of familial bonds in this mesmerizing work from journalist Calhoun.